Many of us have a vision of how we want our lives to look after a certain time. Some might want a private jet; some might wish for a penthouse, which is absolutely fine. We all have dreams. What matters is how we turn them into reality. One way of getting started is not to hold high regard for our own opinions in a discussion. We cannot learn anything new from people who already agree with us. It is through disagreements and arguments we realize that we could be wrong. When we realize that, the best thing to do is to apologize and incorporate the change into our behavior. Balance is another aspect that puts things in the right perspective for us. Meditation is an effective way to get things in order. If we have a good grip on our decisions, it will reward us in both personal and professional aspects of life.